Monday, March 24, 2014

MD visit the VH and Cale Ripken baseball Center.

We flew to MD and stayed at Ellen House. Sadie is loving volley ball. And she is going to be in a play. Both girls dance and take gymnastics. We ate well. Chinese food and crab cakes. Along with the double chocolate Wegmans cake.
Holden and his team went to the Cal Ripken center to play a baseball tournament. It is every boys dream and also the fathers. We were able to have a great visit with the G kids also.




































Eve had her 42 th birthday. She posted this on FB.






A very special man , Gordan Farbstein, died after a long illness of cancer. I loved Gordan. He was fun, kind and had the bluest eyes.
He was part of our bike group and we called him, the cornel, since his helmut looked like one. He died at 88 years and was biking with us at 85 years. He would be at the end of the line and someone always stayed back with him.






Picture taken Dec. 2010 with a bike group as it was that year.









Nov. 4, 2013. We had a lunch at Gordan and Sherri house.
The cycle babblers





















Feb.

I suffered from blog fog again. I just could not seem to write a post.
Abe came in second in a basketball tournament. CDS played Colfax school.
There were 23 teams from all over the city but the final games came to two neighboring schools. Abe is playing so well.









The boy is all legs.


























Nathan gave a report in school about Jackie Robinson and was great. He is wearing the T shirt with 42 on it. Sadie did a report about Michelle Obama.









Nathan is taking sewing classes with Jen Primack. This is a reversible kippa. He also made PJs.








All the little girls are singing the song from the movie Frozen. Adley belts it out using the hand movements from the movie. So cute.
Purim came and I was dying for a hamamtuskin. Not something you can buy in HHI and I did not feel like baking. Mollie was in a play at the temple. The K kids dressed in costumes.
Abe bought this suit at Nordstrom's in Sept. And has grown about three inches. It is getting small.

















We had a big thing. Mollie decided she likes and will eat a hot dog but not with the bun. One more thing a picky eater adds to her diet.








There was a decade day at schoo. Mollie is dressed like the 1950s.








Abe has started with braces. He is having a palate expander put in. Laura has to give it a turn wider for eighteen days.








The G kids with picture pillows.









We flew back to Pgh and had a nice visit with the K kids. We took Mollie and Nathan to the Sports Works and they both climbed the wall many times. Wonderful dinners at Laura's. Lamb chops, brownies


















It has been a cold winter. This was one of the good days. We went to a friends yard that is ocean front. We are with Diane and Bob Friedman.








Leila R. Came to visit Adley. The girls love each other and have so much fun together.

















Jack had his 69th birthday. It was low key.


















Dinner at the Heimlechs and a carrot cake.









Holden celebrated his 11th birthday. He was such a happy and fat baby.





















Friday, March 21, 2014

March

We got back from India and were terribly jet lagged. I also got a cold and my hives are bad. So were were zombies for a while. We spent four days with Eve in NJ, mostly sleeping. It was the Chinese New Year of the horse. On Saturday we went to the Mandarin Pre School for a program and dinner. I was so shocked than so many of the kids are not Asian. There were black and white kids going to the school. Parents that want the kids to learn a different culture. Adley was great but really did not want to be on the stage.






























Maya is now taller than me and quite a nice girl. And pretty.













It has been cold and tons of snow in the north all winter. Our bedroom in the basement at Eve's house was a little cold but we were so tired. Eve fed and took are of us. On Sunday we drove to MD for a visit with Ellen. They were predicting a snow storm. So we stayed the afternoon and ate dinner and then drove three hours south and away from the bad weather.

Friday, February 28, 2014

Afterthoughts of India trip

I would not recommend this trip to people unless you have seen everything else. Or Fly into India see the Taj Mahal , go to Varanasi and leave.
I am shocked by the garbage and lack of places to pee. Men were peeing against walls and everywhere. What do the women do? And how do they handle their periods? In an area of China, the women place a bark from a tree between their legs. The bark absorbs the blood. And they walk funny from it chaffing their skins.
The country does not have a workable government to solve its problems.
No hope for the country unless they deal with all the animals that roam the streets. And they think the cows are sacred so they will not move, kill or eat them. They will use the skin off a dead cow but not eat the meat. I saw a skinned cow on the road. Starving people and a dead cow rotting in the street. Dogs and goats , monkeys and rats everywhere. People sleeping anywhere, no shelter. They did have a few white tents in cities for the homeless to sleep in because of the cold.
One more country that the water is not safe and bottled water is a must. We never ate anything but where the tour took us. Still do not love Indian food. It is so spicy and hot. They do not do dessert. We would be given a round ball with a sweet sauce that was not good. We were given ice cream a few times. I really missed chocolate.
I need someone to explain the Hindu religion better. There are big and little temples everywhere. It seems a priest can set up a mosque on a raised platform and people pay him and pray.



Where does the money go? Does any of the money go back into the community? There is no minister giving a sermon asking the people to help their neighbor.
We had way too much free time with this tour. We would be in a hotel with large grounds and nothing around or out of the grounds to see. I can not believe there was not more to see in the cities. Some decent place to shop. Where do the middle class people live? Where do the wealthy live? I just did not see it. Do the wealthy slop around it that dirt? I did not come to India to have a manicure or swim. And it was too cold outside for walks. Too dangerous to go outside the grounds of the hotel.
The weather was colder than expected. The entire world was in a cold wave. At least three nights we were cold in our hotel rooms. They did not have heat or it did not work. So we were cold all the time. How can I complain when there were so many homeless people living in the cold wet streets and they are hungry. With no toilets. Only well water to bath or use for food. Doing laundry from the well water and putting it on the ground or walls to dry.
Our guide said that there is free education for all children up to the age of 12. But I have my doubts about the education for many of the kids. We were taken to the worst school possible. And we gave these dirty poor kids a small scarf or a cap. They needed shoes, food and school supplies. They had nothing to learn with. They are taught by rote. First there are the children in the farm and country. No good schools for them. Then how do you get homeless children in school. They can not afford the uniform. He said pink and red bikes are provided for the girls to ride to school. I did see some of the bikes. But very few girls ride bikes and certainly not the motorcycles. In the cities I saw kids going to school in uniforms. They looked clean and happy. They are the ones going to the private school.
I do not feel the need to buy things on my trips. I have two decorated homes. The items in these countries would not match my style. I enjoy going to,the different factories. But I am done seeing how a rug is made, inlaid marble done. I love looking a Jewerly but not interested in buying an expensive piece out of the country. Too many people have been cheated. Thinking you bought a stone and it turns out to be glass. My mother , the Merry Widow, as we called her, traveled the world and when she died and we divided up the Jewerly, it was not all real. She enjoyed the ring but the ruby but it was not that.
Jack and are are discussing our next vacation and think we need a very different experience. Maybe something active with hiking, rafting and beautiful scenery.

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